People don’t like listening to my commentary when I attach ‘potty mouth words’ to them so I’m just rewriting it here. This post is a reference to another that said tumblr doesn’t have a “celebrity class” yet it reach on culture is equal to that.
The erasure and vilification of “tumblr aces” “A is for Asexual, Aromantic and Agender” was not common until “a bunch of tumblr aces” told GLAAD that one of their campaigns would harm our communities.
Maybe it’s just because I work in publishing but Big 5 ace books used to be very allo written about how aces were weird to be with. But tumblr bloggers keep collecting our history, and those books over the next years turned into ace written even at least twice mentioning in the books themselves mentioning what it felt like to first see themselves via a tumblr post.
There’s been a literal explosion of asexuals canonically in fiction around this time as well. Because as the community stopped out from AVEN’s forums to more shared spaces we gained a visibility that was more consolidated before. Tumblr allowed aces to be in spaces shared by everyone, instead of their own spaces online.
Mirco-labels are a tumblr thing. Because they were labeled as such as a push back against those communities were gathered socially and publicly on tumblr.The queer theory written about them furthered that lexicon both on and off tumblr.
What community coined allosexual? Tumblr aces. I was actively there for, and debated on which label should be use and why and what all the nuance of that specific choice and others should mean.
What community re-popularized the split attraction model and saved the gay history behind it? Tumblr aces. It allowed for an more open and sure complex discussion on how we are the same and how we are different but how we are still one with not only ourselves but the wider queer community.
“Ace-spec” and “A-spec” were also fyeah heavy because it was a reaction making sure the whole of the community feels seen. And the push back is largely here and spread just as far as people using the term.
“Inclusionist” was specifically used to allow aces and any one else others targeted by Trans Exclusionary Radical Fems. So in 2018 if someone said “They are an exclusionist” probably mean they are an acephobic. In 2020 they may use it more widely but its use is still heavily a-spec leanding. Even though it was indeed the opposite of the E from TERF. This is because it phrasing was popularized by trans aces.
Making fun and shunning tumblr has always been about attacking the ones most vulnerable in a fight about respectability politics. “Those non-binary colored hair queers with micro-labels.”
So my question about even the phrasing of “tumblr aces” or “tumblr queers” as an insult is this: Do we want to be a community that fights oppression wherever we see it. Or do we want to remake Mean Girls one tweet or post about superiority over those who debate and advocate? What happens when people on tumblr even start saying “Oh those parts of “ace tumblr;” vaguely without context what is actually being discussed?
There’s no citizenship under a platform. The fact that tumblr is supposedly full of “cringe kweers” is and always was ableism mixing with racism and transphobia to create new brand acephobia that eats at ace history and those who laid the bedwork of everything that is commonly found across all ace spaces.
Tumblr’s power, and fyeah’s contributions, and the contributions of all “tumblr aces” is the same that was AVEN’s before they came so allo facing. It’s decentralized, allows for anonymity to safely join, no one’s opinion was inherently worth more simply because they aren’t public facing or a “celebrity”.